We are all drawn to one another as if fitted with invisble magnets looking for others of attractiing polarity. Why do we make friends, find partners and want lovers? It is as if we are all created to socialise by default, Is it a habit or an addiction? A blessing or a curse? You can explain this scientifically, socially or spiritually but the question still remains. I may chatter on and on about how beautiful a girl is or how much I love a lady but what then makes one person more appealing than the other? It is deducible that we are all born with preferences and selection criteria for people making us somewhat unaccoutable for the kind people that attract us...or maybe we are born with a clean social slate and then develop into wanting specific people and rejecting others. Pondering on this has infact left me with no concrete answers but I believe that if we didn't have preferences and criteria for people then we'd have taken another giant step towards the utopia envisioned by many, after all it would mean everyone had a friend!!!