I don't think pple change in the real sense of the word, I think pple just get influenced by internal or external forces into realising their true selfs. For example take W (fictional character ), so she never went clubbing and she didn't use to swear, she never wore skirts that went above her knee and we didn't even know if she had cleavage cos we never saw it, now she's the direct opposite and you say she has changed? I don't think so, I think she has manifested, pple tend to be comfortable wiv stuff they like and human beings have a tendecy to be able to adapt to unfavourable conditions meaning that even though she looked like a nun she may have been wearing a latex lingerie underneath. Some of you know pple who you knew wud be sexually indiscriminate right from primary school cos they showed tendencies then so were not syrprised wen this person shagged half the first year class in uni. I think pple express their true slef at different times in their life cos we are all unique. You may have known W through primary skool, college but in Uni she seemed to have changed...or not...maybe she just realised what she was and who she wanted to be...it's also a sort of change in a way but not a transformation
Love is the most inconsistent thing I've ever mused over. I mean everyone has something to say about it, I don't think pple have argued over evolution and creation the way they've argued about love. Some say it doesn't exist while some have felt the euphoria and bruises from having it. I'm Pro-love and I think no matter how hard or long it takes loves will actually find everyone. Love is a decision and not a feeling, it's a voluntary obligation amnd not an emotional ambush. In my opinion the illusion of love can only be made real when you can see past the apparition and still enjoy the trick. If you don't believe in it then that's a shame cos many have been "mislead" it lives of bliss under a "fallacy" right? The thing about this depressing world is that setbacks tend to get more coverage than triumphs and tragedies have a higher preferences against joy. So you know five pple that got dumped so wat? I'd prefer to find out how the one couple that got it right did it rather than throw away any chance of happiness by denying the existence of love. Even if I believe it exists and it's a lie; free me like that cos ironically it proves that ignornace is truely bliss.
Abeg explain something to me ehn? is forming/fronting part of the default female repertoire? Is there a lil rule book that says Chicks must form for a guy, cos it's the most saddistic thing I have ever seen lol. How? two pple like each other but one thinks that playing hard to get wiv d other will make d other appreciate them more, how selfish is dat please? I'm saying thkis cos I have a friend, Jerry, he liked this chick and he was absolutely sprung which wasn't a usual occurrance cos Jerry is more of a philanderer than than lover boy. From all indications the chick liked him too but when the dude finally started the whole process of "getting to know each other" which he thot wud be relatively hassleless cos they were both feeling each other the chick just withdrew, like a friggin turtle! She started playing games wiv him and annoying the heck out of him. Now I'm not as promiscuous as my some friends and I have tried my best to show them the light so imagine my excitement when I found out Jerry actually liked someone who wivout premediated sex plans! In the end he simply got tired and really annoyed. It was almost a year ago and he still tells me he thinks about her but the hassle she put him through was unfair. Now we area talking about the poster boy of womanizing we but the way he described his feelings for this chick was kinda deviant, unfortuantely for her it was never realised coz she was following protocol and forming. Personally, I can stand a certain amount of forming in accordance wiv the societal or cultural normalities but wen it just gets annoying and exaggerated I doubt any form of Abeg ehn I want to understand something, is forming/fronting part of the female repertoire? NA by force to front for guy? Cos I really can't wrap my head around it. I've got a friend, Jerry, who really liked this girl. It was really rare to see this dude so sprung cos he's more of a philandererfondness for someone can overshadow the need for self pride and sensibility. Now Jerry is single and proverbially the caretaker of the one night stand today cos he got added to the growing statistic of guyz who for the first time wanted to leave the shallow end of the pool towards the deeper end wiv someone but nearly drowned cos the chick he was swimming wiv didn't even bother giving him a float!
The vanities in this life are copious, money, power and sex being some of the more dominant ones. Have you ever seen a shoe, shirt or in my case a piece of alluring technological engineering in a store and just wanted to absolutely tear urself into pieces unless you bought it. You probably never stopped thinking about it and you actually think that if you own that piece of worldy treasure you will never need anything in your life again lol! It's like that thing will complete you and when you saved enuf money you can't seem to get to the store fast enuf to buy it. The first few days wiv ur new "thing" are absolutely blissfull but after say 3 months you just look at it and all the feelings of adoration have just magically dissipated. That's how vain this life works, it's engineered to hold things that don't last and eternal essences like human beings who are designed to attach ourselves to things and pple wiv d option of the everlasting will always be disappointed wen vanity clouds our judgement, attaches itself to our desires, tricks us into adulatory feelings for it and finally leaves us forlorn wen it expires...we always live long enuf to feel the loss of an expired vanity.
I think real Men like to use synonyms wen it comes to their feelings but women prefer antonyms...chew on that!!!
Summer is around the corner and I have no plans...pathetic is my case lol!